THE WHEELS OF LIFE



     The wheels of life keep turning. Sometimes slow , sometimes fast . But for sure it continues to spin. We start from the smallest particles . After nine months , we came out of the womb of the mother loved to see the world in the most perfect character, but wilted and drooping poor can not afford to say anything . Eat fed, washed shit , taught to speak and walked until we can walk and run . Even further , we can recognize the moon, stars and sun in the sky. Everything is possible with the permission of Allah S.W.T. Hard work of our parents and raise our guard , especially when the mother body double approximately nine months. Mother never forget even a moment to bring us back then. Wherever he goes he will bring us . The father busied herself making a living and living to earn and a bowl of rice for their families. No matter the day , night , rain, heat and even the storm was willing to face. With the hope that the children will be a Caliph who succeeded in this world and the hereafter later. But what is our response to them?
     
     With a few pieces of money that the father had, he sent us to school. But what we do , we just know to play with friends at school . But the father of all it does not matter here but we are happy . He said , " As usual , kids " . At that time, all the things we would look for mom and dad no matter when the good and bad times . But when we grow up, parents will no longer be the place we share. Friends are everything to us . We have fun together with friends , often out of the house to be with them . While our parents at home are busy thinking about the problem of high mountains, and even visit the unfailing arrival . What we do know , just raised our hand asking for money from them . They are willing to give when they both had to tighten their belts for a few days for our pleasure . Do not we realize ? Whether we do not forge such a way ? Parents continue to be patient , they assume it is normal. Young blood they said.

     We go through times Connections Career anyway. We are busy collecting world property and parents are getting older. Parents are forgotten because the property craze. Already have friends who take care of while we eat and drink even our clothes that our spouse. At that time, the parents are not looking forward to our money although we have a property that is able to purchase a globe, but they are hungry for our time with them. How many times have we looked them in a week, a month or even a year if we stay far away from them? Did they or did not confirm the healthy? Have we ever thought they yearn feeling towards us? If asked, might not be revealed by words. Money sent each month can not cure the wounds in their hearts even the reach of five to six figures.

     Increasing age. We are getting old. Parents are no longer with us. At this point that we understand what they are facing before. Distress, pain, anguish, tears us to think that this is where we never know when our parents are still there. Never replies them by our discretion. Of course we are not a great match with our parents who raise us. But what, it was too late. Life must go on.

     Extremities are decaying. We can only lying on the bed. Our faithful companions then only pills of various colors used for longer life. That even with the consent of Allah S.W.T.Of course, then we will always think about hands off closest to us, which is death. Wheel of life will continue to rotate. Perhaps our children will experience what we have gone through the past ruling at the time. But of course we do not want them in the same boat with us, but of course we want a better life for our children and the next generation.

DISADVANTAGES OF SOCIAL NETWORK


Disadvantages Social network

Nowadays, the use of social networking sites over the internet is very popular in Malaysia. Social sites like "Facebook", "twitter", "Wechat", and so gained the attention of people in this country. Ease of use and easily accessible by society is one of its advantages. There are some members of society in Malaysia who has made the use of the social networking site on the internet as a medium to fill their time. This is because the applications that are in advanced social sites to attract the attention of society in Malaysia. Indirectly, the use of these social site have an impact on lifestyle of the society in Malaysia.

As a medium for spreading slander. There are also cases in which social media are used as a tool to spread the slander in which the pictures are not obscene may be uploaded without the owner's pictures and all sorts of lies have been thrown. The owner of social media accounts should be wise in handling their accounts. Add Friends only if we know, sometimes we are see thousands of the friends. However, did you know it? If not know in common, sharing of information should be limited.

   The next impact of social media is the spread of a pornography influences or elements from the West to the life of society. Elements of pornography is easily available on the internet website. Elements of pornography as reading material, pictures, and videos are easily accessible and disseminated by the users of the social site. This is so because, social media such as "Facebook" and "Twitter" accessible not only by Malaysians but also the entire population of the world. In addition, Western culture as "Black Metal", "Punk", "Gothic", and "Skin Head" will spread the thinking youth in Malaysia. This will affect the youth to imitate the culture up there is a culture of hedonism and gengsterisme in schools. It is clear that the use of social media can influence the youth to erode the moral values ​​of society.

    In conclusion, the use of social media over the internet have an impact on pattern of life style in Malaysia. Therefore, parents have an important role to prevent the adverse effects of its use as prevention is better than cure. In addition, the community should have the discipline and fortitude to change their lifestyle with using social media for good use and activities that are beneficial to improve the efficiency of the minds of the community to become a first-class mind. Communities also need to make sure the use of this technology could be balanced without going on the exploitation of living in a society in Malaysia.

The Life of The Poor and The Rich

        There are people who only eat once a day, while they was able to eat two or three times a day. Hamka said that if it is clear that the property could not fend off the pain, can not resist the fever, can not prevent death, it is clear that the afflictions of the rich, similar to the distress of the poor. I think the more difficult life may also occur in people who are not poor. There are people from poor families. His house is small and uncomfortable. Young children could not attend school because of money. It is sad to see the situation. Wealth is not a guarantee for happiness peace. Great home is not necessarily peaceful. Money also was not necessarily a lot of wealth. So, be grateful where the status we are today. Learn to appreciate the blessings that Allah has given to us. We have to keep smiling and pleased as we are confident that the provision set by Allah. How often we forget what we have and keep thinking about what is not ours. What 
that are considered valuable by someone turns is something longed for others.All of these based on one's perspective make we asked what would happen if we all thankful to Allah.


         Today, many people do not realize that life is difficult or easy it actually tests by Allah. If the resolution that Allah give us the hardships of life, we are encouraged to be patient. So, we should not think too much trouble why Allah ordained because we must believe that there are others whose lives more difficult. We should be grateful for that wherewith. Difficulties we experience is just one small test from HIM. Everyone of course wants to get their blessing in this world. However, Allah will not easily give blessings to people. Finding the meaning of life is not easy, but not too hard to find. To know the meaning of life, we need to know not only with sound reason, but also a clean heart for the meaning of life can only be felt by those who have a clean heart and mind. Life is indeed difficult but not troublesome. Life is indeed and full of problems. Allah is making our life is full of trials. We are given a variety of tests, challenges and others that the problems in our lives.


         Many of us do not realize life is hard. Some are aware but many are escaping from this predicament. Motivations also instill the idea that life is easy. So many people avoid the problems that come up. No fix for refusing to accept the fact that life is difficult. But the fact is that our lives are difficult, which may involve a variety of things to do and executed. Thought says life is easy may make us weak and unable to solve the problemHard life makes us grow mature. We cannot count how many problems we have to solve. These problems that we mature in our lives in this world. We need to have the awareness that life is full of difficult challenges and trials. When we forget life is difficult, we will always be prepared with a variety of possible effectsWilling is not necessarily always thinking about the problems that will come. But we are always willing to physically and mentally if we are faced with a problem that is likely to happen to usThey are always thinking life is easy to quickly disappointed when afflicted with the problem. They think the problem should not happen because they said life is easy. They can not accept the fact of life is difficult and need supplies and the help from Allah.. To the extent they will blame Allah  for giving them the problem.

BEFORE YOU JUDGE SOMEONE, WALK A MILE IN HIS SHOES!



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efore you judge someone, walk a mile in his shoes. Not necessarily because the outward appearance of a person is a bad means bad behavior. Sometimes a person's physical appearance is not pretty but her attitude very beautiful. Until somebody can fall in love with the beautiful nature that.

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ou may be born into a family of strong religious beliefs then you shall be a good and faithful, but what about people who were born into a family away from religion? they did not learned from their parents and rarely taught to love people who do not try their own religions learns about his religion, therefore he is bad or not believe.

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itter experience can change someone thoughts. If you grew up without a painful experience with family life was perfect whether you are rich or poor you are happy computed. what about people who live with the trauma? traumatized by what had passed just  like being raped, his family killed, abused or parents drug dependent and others . this experience will change him into a grumpy due to stress.

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ove can show  personality of a person. If you live with a happy life with your family you love enough to last and you will be able to think rationally, but what about the family divorce or orphans, the children will feel suffer his parents separated, Did how it feels? like a heart split in two. familiarity people who are less love will happen because his heart is full of wild hatred that grows from alone.

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or this reason among many different causes of human thought, not strange why some people commit crimes when in fact he knew that crimes forbidden in the religion and laws of the country. Let GOD judge the servant of our people do not knowing what happened to all human beings hence the we judge someone, walk a mile in his shoes.

I AM STILL LEARNING (MICHELANGELO)

   

     
The learning process continues throughout life. Knowledge plays a vital role in all spheres of life and human activities, irrespective of age and time. It is a strong factor that helps people to achieve success, power and position in life. There is no doubt that physical strength and money is an instrument of power. But the power of knowledge is greater. Knowledge directs our actions and enables us to find the difference between right and wrong, good and bad. It helps us to overcome the shortcomings and mistakes and encounter danger and difficulties with courage and confidence. It gives mental development, morality and spirituality. In addition, it is through knowledge that man has gained the mastery over nature. There is not any existence of life without due process of learning. There are various learning processes in which we gain the trust attitudes and skills. Knowledge is very important in life.

     The importance of knowledge is that it can guarantee a bright future . If a person worked hard , they'd learned as an effort ladder of success. For example, they can gain the knowledge of the teachers at the school. This is because they can get knowledge in various areas of the subject through such as science, mathematics , commerce, economics and literature. The knowledge gained can be applied in their daily lives . Of course someone is going to be successful if they can master the knowledge of various fields of study.
    
     Next , they  also can solve the problem if they have useful knowledge . In any walk of life we will experience a variety of problems . The best way to solve the problem effectively, they must have knowledge because knowledge is lamp of life. For example , if a student has a high religious knowledge , they will be able to solve the problem without the frantic action . Therefore effective problem-solving skills can be mastered if we have knowledge.

     With the necessary knowledge , we can also be a human noble character . This is because we get a good guide through the knowledge they posses . For example , a person with knowledge will be able to take advantage of the values ​​learned in everyday life. The values ​​that can be practiced is respectful , responsible , thoughtful and appreciative . Indeed, we will be strong moral if our knowledge.

     Without knowledge, human life would be in darkness, for it is light that can illuminate life. In fact, human life would not be developed and without even humans can not distinguish between truth and falsehood.

WAR

    Who has never felt so hard in this life? All normal people feel difficulties in her life. We will never escape from the hardships and suffering. At one time, we may be experiencing the events of surprises. Every people is tested by Allah in a different way. Everybody have their own advantages and disadvantages. In this world there are rich people and poor people which is always take things or otherwise. Sometimes people are not grateful for what Allah has given to us. They are often waste their food. Life's difficult when most delicious foods which ever eaten. Do not be sad if life is difficult, but sadly if not a dignified life. Maybe not all rich people are there in the world can receive live by eating food like that when falling into trouble because they do not appreciate what common sense trouble. We probably can not help them, at least do not mean what they have. Life is like a wheel, hard life is not a hindrance to life. Rich people often insulting the poor people, but not all like that. When we find it difficult, know that Allah is always with us


                                           Life at any time can become difficult.
                                             Life at any time can become easy.
                                           Good or bad, there are season on life.
                                                       It all depends upon,
                                       how you take on life and adjust to these season




     I began to realize, life is hard and difficult.  Fortunately there are friends who help and reminds me. I thank Allah today as Him were giving me the opportunity to change. Living in a world that is full of luxury and all that is in it raced today often overpowers us with a thousand sorts of things. Ever wondered not why ourself misfortune suddenly, when a few minutes or a few hours before that our heart was really enjoy? We only like to live in joy. Sometimes we sad. We sad because this life feels too hard. If we're not feel difficult, we do not live on this earth. We just need to be patient, work and pray. I don't know why too late for aware of all this. I just realize what I've been through at all this time. Already nineteen years I've born on this earth, I realize that I had made many mistake. I just smile when I remembered all of my life stories. Life is not always be a sweet promising. Allah know what is the best for us. Allah tests us often and for every pain, He give us provided we are patient. What happened to us, there have theair own wisdom.

I HAVE NEVER REGRETTED MY SILENCE. AS FOR MY SPEECH, I HAVE REGRETTED IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN



     People talk all the time. Talk of good will bring security and benefits to humans. If the trial is not in accordance with the manners, people will suffer in this world and in the hereafter. The world would be hated by others while in the next trial that hurts other people will cause us to suffer eternally in hell. For those who believe that Allah bestowed tongue was not used to talking whim and vanity. Otherwise used to produce pearls of wisdom. Thus, silence is a bastion of the human tongue to say the words of vanity.

     Speaking of that is a good thing but it is very important especially when in the field of learning or work fields. But bear in mind, it is worth a good thing. Silence is not necessarily clever, talked also not necessarily intelligent because intelligence is actually a piece of mind. Quiet is better than a lot of stupid people talking. If people insult us, we are not mediators insulted him cursing the fact itself.

     Everyone in this world make a mistake. We need to take care of other people's feelings and the feelings of others such as nuts. Everyone will be angry and vengeful when hurt by others. It is a common human nature. While we are not able to take care of everyone's heart, but we have to try as well. Let someone hurts us, as long as we do not do to others.

     Honest heart produce a honest action. It can relate by a phrase. There are

     “Watch your tongue, they become your words.
       Watch your words, they become your actions.
       Watch your actions, they  become your habits.
       Watch your habits, they become your character.
       Watch your character, it become your destiny.”

     We also forget that silence is one of great value. Few things left unsaid better. We do not need to talk about something that is going to hurt other people's feelings. Things you should never do is when we are hurt and we give up so easily. They are going to work us down and built up to us so that we can be what we are meant to be. People may not be able to defeat the devil except in silence. The best way is if we still can’t speak towards good things. Talk about good things is the epitome of a good heart and a net depends on the strength of faith in the human person.